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Leaps and Bounds in Knoxville

After a round trip to Knoxville and a day of work in the office and training in just over 24 hours, I’m quite exhausted so this will be brief.  However, Riley started making a few strides which deserved recognition.  For the first time last night and to a greater degree today, Riley fed himself.  He has started grabbing his baby banana snacks with his fingers and putting them in his mouth, chewing them, and begging for more.  Now, he is not always successful in the self-feeding and if you don’t hand it to him he is frequently UNsuccessful, but he can do it.  He’s better at using his left hand which gives me a vague hope that he will be left handed (lefties are just smarter in general and I say this without the hint of bias, hehe).  It was a big step to see him put together grabbing, feeding, chewing, and swallowing, without needing our help much at all.

We arrived Thursday night in time for dinner with my best friend (and Riley’s godmother) Erin and her husband Taylor.  We ate at a Japanese place we loved when we lived in Knoxville called Wasabi, which Andy and I agree is our favorite Japanese steakhouse.  Riley showed off literally the whole meal, trying to stand up in his high chair, eat his own food, and drink from his sippy cup, in between giggles and smiles at Erin and Taylor, but mostly Erin who he seems to adore.  When we went back the their house, he was crawling on the floor with more success than I’d ever seen him make and worked out a system for making it about 5 feet in only a few seconds (which he’s never done here).  It was really exciting to see him leap forward so quickly.

Today, I was in the office all day, which left Andy with the baby.  He didn’t get as much studying done as he wanted, but I’m glad he had the experience of taking the baby by himself for about six hours.  Most dads don’t get that much quality time with their children sans mommy.  It wasn’t as hard for me as I thought it would be, though I will be glad to be working at home Monday morning.  I forgot how hard it was to deal with getting ready for work in the mornings, dress up, and drive to the office.  I have a renewed appreciation for my two-flights-of-stairs commute.  Despite all that, it was great to be in the office, meet some of my bosses, and touch base with the rest of my team.  All in all, a good visit.  Now we’re home, sleepy and ready for bed (with the baby already sound asleep).

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Blog Rejuvenation

As you can tell, Andy actually posted on the blog for the first time in many many many months. It’s nice to see a little activity as I’ve been going through a serious slump in my writing lately, a slump characterized by complete and total mediocrity.  It’s easy to blame this writer’s block on a lack of interesting moments in our lives right now, even though our days are filled with Riley’s milestones and freakishly ahead-of-the-curve antics.  But part of me hesitates to write about it even as I’m bursting with parental pride because it seems braggadocious, immodest, and more than a little shallow.  When my time isn’t occupied with the baby, I’m working and working hard, but the status of my marketing campaigns is hardly the stuff of captivating blog posts.  That leaves me with little else in my life of consequence as the full-time jobs of mom and marketing analyst leave little room for much else.  Frankly, most days I’d rather use my free time taking a shower or sleeping than blogging.  But perhaps some new post categories (like Andy’s MythStarters column) and some new bloggers on the blogroll will revitalize the site.

For those uninterested in reading about the baby, skip to the next paragraph.
As it is essential for all the grandparents, great-grandparents, aunts, uncles, and other family members who do read the blog, I must give an update on how Riley’s doing.  He’s just over six months old now and according to his pediatrician, quite a bit ahead of the curve.  He is fairly mobile and can crawl-ish.  His form isn’t pretty but he gets around pretty well.  He sits up by himself for several minutes at a time and even longer if he has something to grab onto either in front of or behind him.  He claps, laughs, smiles, and plays constantly.  He entertains himself really well, preferring cell phones, remotes, blocks, and now measuring cups I have gifted him.  He has his first two teeth just about to break through, though they seem to protrude and recede constantly but they’re right there at the surface.  It’s pretty evident he’s uncomfortable but he’s a really tough little man and hasn’t had any noticeable negative effects from teething.  At his 6 month weigh in he was 28 inches tall (92th percentile) and 19 pounds 4 ounces (75th percentile).  He’s as healthy as can be and eats everything we put in front of him.  He loves all sorts of foods and eats everything including fruits, vegetables, meats, and grains.  I have yet to find a single food he does not like.  He’s wearing 12 month clothing because he’s so tall, though it often gaps at his waist which is comparatively quite small.  He said “ma ma” the other day for Andy but we’re having some difficulty getting him to repeat it – Andy says it counts, I don’t.  He’s back on a normal schedule finally after our San Francisco trip, so everything relating to Riley is wonderful.

So having updated the world on the status of my baby, I’ll take a break from blogging for the night and hope for more inspiration tomorrow.  And if all else fails, at least Andy has a few funny tidbits to add for the time being.

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Welcome, Springtime!

We are so excited that it finally is feeling like springtime around here!  We’ve been going on walks in the park, taking excursions out with the baby, and just enjoying the sunshine after what has felt like an endless winter.  We planted flowers and herbs on our back deck and finally ordered some patio furniture, the first steps to enjoying our outdoor space.  We had plans to take a trip to the zoo this weekend, but when we arrived there we quickly realized we would have to parallel park the truck about a half mile away from the zoo to actually get a space, in a not-so-nice area of town, so that brilliant idea was quickly nixed.  Instead, we went to our old standby location, the Georgia Aquarium.  Sure, it’s not a place where you can enjoy the sunshine, but we always have a good time when we go, so we figured we might as well not call the entire day a loss.  So Riley got to experience the aquarium for the first time, and though he slept through most of it, he did wake up enough to see a few fish and he seemed to like it.

He’s growing and changing constantly, smiling a little more and getting a little more head control every day.  He focuses on objects for longer periods of time and is meeting all the milestones for the first month (which is not a whole lot, granted).  Here are some new pictures of the little guy, rounding out the third week of his life.

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Riley’s Second Week

Time is already flying by and we’re watching him change every day.  He learns new things every day – he’s working on grabbing things and finding his mouth.  He took his pacifier out today and put it back in by himself, something I never would have thought would get me so excited, but it did.  He’s making more faces and noises every day.  He’s hungrier than ever, but getting easier to read. As you’ll see in the pictures, he’s a big fan of his pacifier and keeping his hands up by his face, something he’s still used to from being in the womb when he constantly hid his face from us during ultrasounds.  He just had his first bath, since his umbilical stump just fell off, so we have a few pictures from that.  But he’s hungry now, so just enjoy the pictures and I’ll have to comment more later.

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Riley’s First Photoshoot
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11 Days and Counting

I honestly thought I’d be posting so much more about Riley in his first few days and weeks.  It seems like everyone I know has thousands of baby pictures from their child’s (especially first child’s) first few weeks.  Unfortunately, I think we’ve been slacking in that department.  I’m always the photographer in the family, but because I’m “Mommy” now, instead of just the designated family photographer, I’m having a hard time remembering to keep the camera on me, or finding the time to take a picture between all the feedings and diaper changes.  Then, when I try to take a picture, it seems to come out badly and the pictures don’t show all the faces he makes, his smiles and frowns, the cute outfits, and his personality.  Granted, he doesn’t do much more than eat, sleep, and soil his diaper, but there’s still a personality there and I’m just not capturing it right. So far, he likes music, but thinks Pachelbel’s Canon is lame, while Claire de Lune and Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star are pretty awesome.    He loooooooooves breast milk but is okay with his occasional formula supplements.  He hates getting cold during diaper changes and baths.  Swinging in his swing upstairs is a great way to put him to sleep, as is being all swaddled up tightly.  He liked his pediatrician, Dr. G, but did not like getting weighed (back to the being cold and naked thing).  He likes mirrors and having me read to him.  Watching curling on TV with Daddy is also way up on the list of things he likes to do, though hockey is an okay sport, too.

The first ten days have been amazing.  Being a parent is wonderful and I literally couldn’t love my baby more.  Andy and I also have agreed that it’s changed our own relationship as well – for the better.  When we look at the angel baby we created, that’s a part of both of us, together, I find that it’s easy to appreciate my husband that much more – something I never would have thought possible.  He also appreciates all the pain, swelling, aching, and ultimately, surgery, I went through to bring Riley into the world.  It’s been a beautiful thing.

We’re finding that it’s now getting a little easier to decipher his cries, grunts, and squirms, though occasionally he does have us scratching our heads trying to figure out what he wants.  For an 11 day old baby, he’s doing remarkably well with a feeding schedule, rooting around for food every 2-3 hours, and he actually sleeps at night, often only waking us 2-3 times each night.

Andy had an incredibly lucky break with his ob/gyn rotation – his physician was on vacation for the first week, so he was able to stay home with me and the baby for the first ten days, spending time on busy work to make up for lost time.  That has proven to be one of the biggest blessings for us.  Today has been my first day alone with the baby and it’s going really well.  Having my parents here helped a lot – there was always someone to hold the baby, watch him if I needed to shower, help feed him or change him, and help with the housework like laundry, dishes, and cooking.  But now we’re on our own and if today is any indication, I think we’ll be just fine.  I got eight hours of sleep (not all in a row of course, but total), made the bed, washed my face and brushed my teeth, ate breakfast, did some yoga, fed and changed the baby (multiple times of course), put away the dishes, made haircut appointments, and watched a little bit of TV – all before noon.  Andy’s on his way home now, so it looks like a nice dinner and a shower are also on the agenda for tonight!  All in all, a winner of a day.  I know all days won’t be like this one – in fact, I’m totally waiting for the other shoe to drop and things like food and personal hygiene to fall by the wayside – but for now I’m just going to be grateful for today.

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Riley’s First Week

I really can’t believe it’s been a week since Riley was born.  The time has absolutely flown by.  Already he’s growing and changing and it almost breaks my heart because I know how fast time is going to fly by.  He’s becoming more aware of his environment, examining the paintings on the walls, looking around, and starting the first steps toward smiling.  We’ve made our first excursions out with him, taking him to Babies R Us and Target and then to his first pediatrician visit.  He’s already almost back up to his birth weight and has grown 3/4 of an inch.  He’s in the 97th percentile for height, 50th for weight, and 20th for head circumference (I guess he got his Mom’s head).  He’s been an angel so far and was very alert and very good at the pediatrician’s office, despite being cold and having to lay there in just his diaper.  Sleeping has been okay, he’s pretty good about sleeping between feedings, but I would be lying if I said I wasn’t tired.  I’m looking forward to the time when I don’t have to get up a few times in the middle of the night, but at the same time, the bonding is amazing.  In any event, life is wonderful with the baby and we couldn’t be happier.

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Riley James Herda, Born 2-11-2010

Riley James Herda was born today at 5:09 pm EST at 8 lbs 5 oz and 21 inches.  He and mommy are both happy and healthy and resting comfortably.  We will update with more information later.  Here are the first sets of photos taken in the first hours of Riley’s life.

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A Boring Post by Andy

There has been some talk that this blog isn’t updated frequently enough and in the spirit of picking up the slack for my overwhelmed and oversized wife (no offense honey, you know it’s all baby), I’m going to post a little bit of updating and rambling to entertain the likes of those who find this sort of rambling entertaining. As I sit here and drone over things I could possibly talk about, Peanut is meowing very insistently about the fact that she doesn’t have room to crawl into my lap while my hands are engaged in typing. Nonetheless Peanut will find something else to engage in meanwhile, such as barking at the pretty songbirds that have decided to grace our bird-feeder this morning and brighten our day. I’d like to throw a shout-out to all my Tennessee folks who are enjoying unprecedented snowfall amounts, or as we have heard it called “Tennessee Snowpocalypse 2010.” Meanwhile we’re sitting pretty on about a quarter inch of rainfall overnight and a gray, foggy day. So while all of you are enjoying the most thrilling snow day filled with sledding, snowman building, snowball fights, and hot cocoa, keep us in mind in the back of your heads and know that what you’re doing today is way more fun than the tedious chores and baby-preparation that will occupy our Saturday. Apparently we could go see a movie but I really feel my time is better spent using this rare free-time to prepare the house for our new arrival. In a sense, I’m nesting, which is a behavior usually reserved for the pregnant mother, but in this case I claim sympathy pregnancy symptoms.

Since our last update, our lives have been fairly unremarkable. We did manage to find the time for a romantic weekend at Chateau Elan, a resort/winery only 45 minutes from here with top-notch accommodations. Preggo the Hutt will provide more details in an upcoming post regarding that getaway. Suffice it to say that it was everything we were looking for in our last vacation alone, albeit short. The rest of our days have been filled with work, chores, errands, and timing Braxton Hicks contractions hoping they turn into real ones. Her contractions are becoming more frequent, though no other signs of approaching labor have been observed just yet, barring his head moving into 0 station. Look it up if you don’t know what it means. Wikipedia can almost replace a health professional these days.

My work has been fairly good. I’m working a psychiatry rotation at an inpatient facility for adolescents. Unfortunately due to the nature of our patient population I cannot give much more detail than that. I do get a lot of direct contact with the children and the rest of my time is spent doing endless documentation. I’ve already crossed another specialty off the list of possible residency ideas. Nonetheless psychiatry has its place in any physician’s arsenal, especially one who plans to enter family medicine. Family practitioners deal with psychiatric patients on a daily basis, whether the problem is simply a co-morbidity to a medical diagnosis or the psychiatric issue is the presenting problem. I will be glad when it’s over in two weeks though.

As far as the pregnancy goes, things are progressing smoothly if not slowly. Today marks week 38 and mommy-to-be is bigger than ever, though she has not gained any more weight, for which she is very thankful. Her symptoms are uncomfortable and disturbing at times, and some of them even affect me. Her ankle swelling is prominent and doesn’t go away when she swims anymore. The mass effect of the large infant sitting on organs, joints, and ligaments causes an overriding feeling of discomfort. Worst of all is the snoring. It seems to get progressively worse every week and now it’s so loud that I physically cannot fall asleep in the same room. It makes us sad but we have to separate at night if I’m to get any sleep. We both hope that this symptom will disappear quickly after the birth, once the circulating pregnancy-associated hormones return to their normal pre-pregnancy levels.

That’s all I really have to ramble about. Peanut has her back turned to me and refuses to make eye contact now, I hope she’ll get over it (she will). Again I wish all of you snow-bunnies in Tennessee a wonderful snow day and we all hope to see you soon with our newest family member… whenever he decides to show up. He’s late by daddy’s watch and I’m pacing back and forth wondering when he’s going to be home. Bad sign, right?

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Pregnancy Update

Today saw another visit to my Ob/Gyn and he pretty much told me I was what he considered to be full-term, so now we just get to play the waiting game.  In all likelihood, I have another month to go, but Riley could show up anytime now.  I feel absolutely huge and monstrously uncomfortable.  We’ve devised all sorts of nicknames for me and how I look right now – Monstro the Whale, Preggo the Hutt, and other less descriptive names like Fat Wife.  46 pounds is a lot of weight on someone who used to be skinny and I can’t wait to get rid of all this extra bulk.  Seeing old pictures is enough to just about bring me to tears.  Today I dropped a pen at the doctor’s office and it took two full minutes to pick it back up.  I tried bending over at the waist, squatting, and a combination of the two, among other things before I gave up and had to crawl on the ground to pick it up and then hoist myself back up (with great difficulty).

A lot of the weird symptoms I thought I had safely avoided have come around now in the final weeks.  My feet are officially bigger.  I have one pair of shoes and one pair of flip flops that still fit and I can’t wear the flip flops anymore because it’s freezing cold, so I’ve been wearing a lot of shoes that are too tight. Maternity clothes at this point don’t really even fit.  I’m quite tired, but the baby is squashing all my organs so frequent trips to the bathroom in the middle of the night have become the norm, despite my desire to sleep all the time.  I’ve started getting a little bit of reflux in the middle of the night, which I never had before, so to alleviate the symptoms I have rearranged my “pillow fort” (5 pillows in all) to keep my head and chest up, while trying to keep me propped up on my side (apparently being on your back is a big no-no) with my belly and hips supported.  My already non-existent amount of patience has dwindled making me a bit more irritable that usual (not so much moody as just sort of grouchy).  If we’re at a restaurant and I don’t have water in front of me at all times, I get really grouchy.  I’m also not very patient waiting around for the doctor in the office for 20 minutes of more (especially when I’m half naked), but there’s nothing that can be done about that.    It’s not like I can drop my OB’s tip for not attending to me in a more expedient manner, like I can with a lame waiter.  I’m thirsty all the time – I drink probably close to two quarts of liquid in a day, which is weird for me because I never drank this much water before.  No wonder I’m in the bathroom so much.  Don’t get me wrong, these aren’t complaints, it’s just the reality of being 9 months pregnant.  I knew what I was getting into before this all began, but there’s a great deal of truth to the discomforts of being THIS pregnant.  I’m just sort of over it.  It seems like I’ve been pregnant forever according to Andy and Tyler, and honestly, I pretty much have been.  May 2009 – February 2010 is a LONG time to be uncomfortable!

So that’s where we are today – waiting, waiting, and waiting.  I’m torn about packing my bag for labor.  On the one hand, I have a desperate need to be prepared and organized, but on the other, I’m hoping Murphy’s Law kicks in and Riley will show up before I have time to get the bag together.  We’ll see what happens in the next few weeks, but I would imagine that we have several LONG, uncomfortable, and boring days in the coming weeks.  Stay tuned for updates!

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